The Feelings

You can spend months (and sometimes years) preparing for your perfect day. You’ll gather your perfect vendors, each with a vision for your day that matches your own. You will spend forever working out your timelines and seating charts. What you simply can’t do is prepare for how you will feel on the day, itself. Emotions can hit you with a force you didn't expect. Moments of pure joy will appear, without expectation. Something funny will probably happen, along the way. These are the things you can’t predict. Embrace them. They are the best bits of life. They remind us of what it is to be human, to love, to be loved. and they happen all by themselves. You will never ever know how you will feel, until you feel.